by Zach Beach | Aug 10, 2025 | Ageing, Break-Ups and Divorce, Cheating and Betrayal, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Skills for Love
I ask people in their first session, why did you originally fall in love with this person? Why is it about them that drew you together? What’s really good about your marriage? That way, they have some opportunity to refocus on the whole picture rather that just...
by Zach Beach | Jul 20, 2025 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Self-Love, Shame, Skills for Love
Shame is a social construct, it’s not going to go away, and that’s ok. I look at shame the way I look at greif, the goal is to weave it into our life in a healthy way. That way when it shows up, we can immediately identify it and let it go away in the...
by Zach Beach | Jan 19, 2025 | Mindfulness, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Self-Love, Skills for Love
For me, self-care is communal care. It means reaching out to others for support and supporting others. A mantra that steers my life is “tend to the area of the garden you can reach.” If we only did that, if we only made sure that the people within our...
by Zach Beach | Oct 13, 2024 | Communication, Female Empowerment, Marriage, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Skills for Love
One thing that is important to recognize from the outset is that there is an inherent unfairness in relationships. I divide it into two types, the first is that we are imperfect human beings and there will be differences that cause friction in the relationship. And...
by Zach Beach | Sep 29, 2024 | Boundaries, Marriage, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Skills for Love
We shouldn’t turn a romantic decision into an economic one. We should move in with someone if we love them and want to live with them, not because it saves us money. – Vicki Larson What are some different ways couples can Live Apart Together? What...
by Zach Beach | Sep 1, 2024 | Cheating and Betrayal, Forgiveness, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Skills for Love
Unfortunately, betrayal is going to happen in every relationship. No matter how many rules you come up with, you can’t come up with a perfect set of rules that will work for every situation that will come up. Life is unpredictable, including our own reactions to...