by Zach Beach | Apr 30, 2023 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Psychology, Therapy
Unfortunately patriarchy, consumer culture, all these things affect couples in a negative way. You may think it doesn’t affect you but it’s about all of us. We live in this society and learn these values and ideologies about how we should be in the world....
by Zach Beach | Apr 16, 2023 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Psychology, Relationships
The overall chief skill of intimacy is to tolerate anxiety, rather than freak out about it. This requires practice all on its own. You have to be willing to entertain possibilities that you haven’t entertained before. That willingness is what keeps a long term...
by Zach Beach | Mar 13, 2022 | Attachment Theory, Narcissism, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Psychology, Trauma
To protect yourself from narcissistic abuse it’s important to look out for the red flags, which I divide up into internal and external. The external red flags are what we can look for in a narcissistic or sociopath that helps us know that this behavior is not...
by Zach Beach | Feb 20, 2022 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Psychology, Relationships, Spirituality, Unconditional Love
We live in Seattle, where you barely see the sun in the winter and you begin to ask, does the sun even exist anymore? And yet, in the spring, there it is. It’s been there the whole time, behind the clouds. And that’s what I want people to know about love....
by Zach Beach | Feb 6, 2022 | Attachment Theory, Conscious Relationships, Emotional Intelligence, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Psychology, Skills for Love
There are four fundamental question we can seek to answer for our partner: Am I safe? Am I loved? Am I enough? And do I matter? These questions are at the root of our wounding. We come into this world as little babies, and we look around and ask these question. And...
by Zach Beach | Jan 30, 2022 | Attachment Theory, Conscious Relationships, Emotional Intelligence, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Psychology, Skills for Love
You don’t have to be a victim of whatever early life experiences you have had, whether it is trauma, negative experiences, or patterns that you have held for a long time. We have a lot more information than we did long ago about love, and there are a lot of...