by Zach Beach | May 30, 2021 | Communication, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Science of Love, Skills for Love
Couples that learn how to argue well can get more done. Because the root notion of argument is more along the lines of debate, not battle, and when we can manage difference with intimacy, integrity, and intention, then we can actually find ourselves becoming closer....
by Zach Beach | Mar 21, 2021 | Communication, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships, Skills for Love
Ninety-percent of the couples I work with say that their goal for therapy is not to fight, not to feel angry, not to feel stressed, depressed, anxious or hopeless. But once you identify your positive goals, rather than the negative ones, you are ahead of the curve....
by Zach Beach | Jan 24, 2021 | Communication, Parenting, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Science of Love, Skills for Love
No matter how we look at this issue, the kind of relationship the parents have affects the child. If the couple is focused on being a we, and not an I, if they are being teammates and supporting each other, that is not only beneficial for them, but it is beneficial...
by Zach Beach | Nov 29, 2020 | Communication, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships, Skills for Love
“For years people when people told me to trust myself and trust in love, all it did was lead me to believe that I was unsalvageable. Because I’m high maintenance, high energy, type A, I over plan and I am hard on myself. I found that telling people who...
by Zach Beach | Oct 18, 2020 | Communication, Empathy, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships
“If I realize at any point that I’m not truly listening, I pause right where I’m at, I stop my line of thinking that is taking me away from my focus on you, then I reflect: what am I doing wrong? I’m not paying attention. Then I make my...
by Zach Beach | Sep 20, 2020 | Communication, Conscious Relationships, Marriage, Podcast Episodes, Relationships
“The more capable you are, the more you’ve learned, the more you’ve grown—emotionally, psychologically, intellectually—the more capable you are of handling the challenges of life. Life is pretty darn challenging, and relationships are challenging...
